Reported from Rasulullah SAW, Muhammad the Prophet, said :
Those who, in the morning, are complaining their live difficulties [to others] means as if they were complaining Allah SWT.
Those who, in the morning, are sad because of their business in their world, means, in the morning, they are really not satisfied to the Divine Decree [Qadha] of Allah SWT.
Those who, in the morning, respect others because of the wealthiness and the prosperities, indeed one third of their religion has vanished.
Doing complaint on bad fate of a person to others is a sign of not accepting unconditionally on parts of lives given by Allah SWT. One must not do the complaint itself, unless only to Allah SWT, then such habit are called Prays.
It is as mentioned in a hadith narrated from Abdullah bin Mas’ud RA that Rasulullah SAW [Muhammad the Prophet] said : would you like if I teach you some of Mose’s says when he accrosed the sea with Bani Israil ?. We [his best friends] answered : of couse we would like to, ya Rasulullah. Then he said : read "Allahumma lakal hamdu wa ilaikan musytakaa, wa antal musta'aan, wa laa haula wa laa quwwata illaa billaahil 'Aliyyil 'Azhiim" [O Allah, all praise only for You, only to You we complaint, and only to You we ask help. No power and strength, unless the help of Allah The Highest and The Greatest].
A person who in the morning feels sad because of his/her world’s business, is said as a person who hate his/her Lord Majesty. It represents his denial toward the Lord’s Divine Decree, not being patient on the Lord’s trials, and not believe in the Lord’s Will [Qadr]. Whereas all happened in this world is based on the Divine Decree [Qadha] and the Will [Qadr] of Allah SWT, The Lord Majesty.
A person is forbidden to respect others because of his/her heritage. Based on Allah’s Law [syariat], a person may only respect others because of his/her devotion to Allah and his/her knowledges [Ilm]. People who value heritage above all, means he/she has insulted Knowledge and Devotion.
Shaikh Abdul Qadir Al Jaelani, may Allah SWT purify his secrets, said :
A Believer [Mukmin] should not release from three things :
1. Doing the Order of Allah SWT;
2. Avoiding the Forbidden of Allah SWT;
3. Accepting the Divine Decree [Qadha] and the Will [Qadr] of Allah SWT.
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